I had a conversation with someone who would not stop talking about everyone else
and everyone else's business. I simply was exausted when it was all over from all the
dodging and redirecting I tired to do. If I mentioned anything positive, I was one-upped
with something. I think I give up.
Saturday, June 12, 2010
Happiness
I know that if you compare yourself to others you can never be happy. Life is not a contest, really. No matter what you do someone will always be better at it than you. I'm not being pessimistic here, but realistic. You have to be content with yourself.
Friday, June 11, 2010
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I really need to subscribe to these booklets. I've read a few and they seem great. I just need to order them! The articles are very encouraging.
I really need to subscribe to these booklets. I've read a few and they seem great. I just need to order them! The articles are very encouraging.
The Running of the Mouth
My husband is wise. He has given me a few little sayings that I don't think I'll ever forget. Here are two big ones that come to my mind.
One is "No guy wants to be just friends." Basically, he was telling me that no matter what the friendly gentleman is saying, he wants to date the girl, not be "just friends." I have never found that to be untrue.
Another is not an exact quote, but two similar ideas: "Be careful of the running of the mouth." "When you are telling someone a secret you have to think 'Who does this person like better than me?'"
One is "No guy wants to be just friends." Basically, he was telling me that no matter what the friendly gentleman is saying, he wants to date the girl, not be "just friends." I have never found that to be untrue.
Another is not an exact quote, but two similar ideas: "Be careful of the running of the mouth." "When you are telling someone a secret you have to think 'Who does this person like better than me?'"
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CHILDREN LEARN WHAT THEY LIVEI watched two young children, playing at a swimming pool. One child seemed a bit timid about jumping off the side, though she clearly wanted to join the fun. The other little girl stepped close to her, patted her arm, and said, "You can do it. I know you can." I smiled at hearing the grown-up tones and words, thinking how she had obviously benefited from some encouragement herself. Back when I was a young mother, this poem by Dorothy Law Nolte was posted everywhere--in doctors' offices, parenting magazines, and on school bulletin boards. Not having seen it in a while, I figured it was time that a new generation of parents received the words to ponder the amazing effects on children of the words and images they see every day. Whether those experiences are positive or negative, children absorb without judgment or evaluation all that they see and hear. Since parents provide most of the living examples that surround children, it is important to become fully aware of the messages we send. The question for every parent is, what are your children living with today?
Children Learn What they Live is written by Dorothy Law Nolte, 1972. Find a full poster of this available for free download at http://www.empowermentresources.com/info2/childrenlearn-long_version.html CHILDREN LEARN WHAT THEY LIVE If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn. If children live with hostility, they learn to fight. If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive. If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves. If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy. If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy. If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty. If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence. If children live with tolerance, they learn patience. If children live with praise, they learn appreciation. If children live with acceptance, they learn to love. If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves. If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal. If children live with sharing, they learn generosity. If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness. If children live with fairness, they learn justice. If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect. If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and in those about them. If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in which to live.
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Wednesday, June 9, 2010
Vacation Days don't really mean Vacation
I have taken several vacation days and been on what most consider a vacation. Honestly, though, I don't feel like I'm on vacation. Some may consider this complaining, and yes, it is, but I just have to say it like it is. I'm totally exhausted.
I would love to sleep the whole night. That would be just great, too. It's not who you'd think though, it's not Thomas waking me up! Thomas sleeps a whole night, but not Joanna. She wakes 2 times a night at least and fights her nap time like crazy.
Reigning this in to perspective, years from now, when my kids are grown, I'll be trying to schedule time with my kids instead of time away from them. If I'm lucky to live long enough, someone will be changing my diaper and want me to take a nap so they can have a break.
I would love to sleep the whole night. That would be just great, too. It's not who you'd think though, it's not Thomas waking me up! Thomas sleeps a whole night, but not Joanna. She wakes 2 times a night at least and fights her nap time like crazy.
Reigning this in to perspective, years from now, when my kids are grown, I'll be trying to schedule time with my kids instead of time away from them. If I'm lucky to live long enough, someone will be changing my diaper and want me to take a nap so they can have a break.
Joanna and the Python
Joanna wasn't even afraid of the snake. She cried when we had to leave. I think it would have tried to eat her if we had been this close in the wild. Woah!
Monday, April 26, 2010
Thoughts
We had a good weekend around the house. Yesterday, we gathered with Jason's mother and brothers. We went to church today. Joanna and Thomas were cute all day.
Thomas is getting his top teeth in. I noticed the two blister-like bumps today. Bless his little heart! Joanna was a sweetie all day. She listened to me really well when we were at the spaghetti lunch in the fellowship hall today. The last time we were at an event, she wanted to run around. This time I told her that she needed to stay close to mommy. She was cute when it was time to leave. A friend got Thomas and took him over to show him off. Joanna said, "Where's Thomas?" When I told her, she said, "Let's get him."
Joanna sings Old Mac Donald this way: "Old Mac Donnel had a cow. E, I, E, I, O. And a moo, moo, here and a moo, moo, there. E-wah (everywhere) moo, moo." Aww.
Thomas is sitting by himself unassisted for a long period of time now. He had meat for the first time today. I wasn't really planning on this as he has just only had green beans and sweet potatoes along with rice for his first three flavors! I did not take along enough rice cereal and Thomas was quite hungry. He had 1/2 of a vienna sausage smashed up to resemble the baby-food meat (but quite tastier). He did seem to like it. I'm sure it was a wild transition for him!
Thomas is getting his top teeth in. I noticed the two blister-like bumps today. Bless his little heart! Joanna was a sweetie all day. She listened to me really well when we were at the spaghetti lunch in the fellowship hall today. The last time we were at an event, she wanted to run around. This time I told her that she needed to stay close to mommy. She was cute when it was time to leave. A friend got Thomas and took him over to show him off. Joanna said, "Where's Thomas?" When I told her, she said, "Let's get him."
Joanna sings Old Mac Donald this way: "Old Mac Donnel had a cow. E, I, E, I, O. And a moo, moo, here and a moo, moo, there. E-wah (everywhere) moo, moo." Aww.
Thomas is sitting by himself unassisted for a long period of time now. He had meat for the first time today. I wasn't really planning on this as he has just only had green beans and sweet potatoes along with rice for his first three flavors! I did not take along enough rice cereal and Thomas was quite hungry. He had 1/2 of a vienna sausage smashed up to resemble the baby-food meat (but quite tastier). He did seem to like it. I'm sure it was a wild transition for him!
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